making my own silver lining

i have been feeling particularly bad for myself over the past few days.

it is my belief that feeling bad for one's self does not help any situation.

in fact, i truly believe that it only makes things worse.

so, in the spirit of healing and happiness, i submit to you, dear readers:

my grateful list

1. my mom

(who has been taking super good care of me even when i'm cranky).

2. extra time away from performing reminds me how much i love + need it.

3. amazing friends

(who have been sending well wishes full of love).

4. not getting what i want

(because it makes me work even harder).

5. other people's blogs who keep me company during days like these

(like this one + this one + this one).

6. creativity! + good ideas

(which keeps my mind moving even when i want it to be still).

7. NYC, LA, Austin, NJ

(+ the other beautiful and interesting places i've been this year).

8. adventures + future adventures.

9. pretend designing my future homes.

10. the ability to learn new skills

(+ crossing things off my to-do list).

i feel better already :o)

what are you grateful for today?

xox

Think Happy Thoughts..

i rediscovered my love for Operation Nice tonight.

have you checked it out? if not, go do it! i'll wait.

a year and a half ago, i had the privilege of interviewing the woman who created and runs the blog and spreads kindness every single day. she was just as cool as i thought she would be and the interview was done through email. when you can tell someone is cool from email, you know you have met someone amazing.

i particularly love the posters she created (as seen above) because it reminds everyone who sees it that simple, everyday gestures like holding a door or sharing a smile or some kind words can do wonders for the people you encounter each day and for yourself. think about it: don't you feel so much better after giving someone else a compliment or keeping a smile on your face even when you're exhausted or frustrated? it really helps me to be kind when i'm in a grouchy mood. check out her blog when you need a pick me up!

spread that love -- xo